The following perspective is written by Mike:
I can tell you that one moment can change so much so fast.
We got the call from the attorneys office that they wanted to show our profile. I will admit that I was slightly excited when they called, but I had to temper it with the factual knowledge that it was only the profile viewing and that they could choose someone else. The attorneys office told us they would call once they knew an answer.
Well, we waited. Then we waited some more. And then, even though I am probably the most patient person you will ever meet, I got tired of waiting and called them for an update. The attorney's assistant was not available, but she called me back. Well, the birth mother chose us.
Needless to say I was excited. But she called back as I was heading to see a client so I really had to control everything. So I texted Sandra as I was waiting for my clients to come out of their office.
So, now we need to sign a contract, provide a deposit and then wait some more.
Thanks for all your prayers. We know that there is at least 6 months of basically waiting, but we all know time flies. We will begin now to make preparations for the arrival. Also, we will need to start getting our dogs ready for this. I know their world is going to change, but we are excited. Rottweilers are well known for their protective nature and once they realize that the baby is part of the pack then they will keep the baby safe.
Obviously we do not know if the baby is a boy or girl, but we should be able to find out in about a month or so. Personally, I am hoping for a boy, but I will be perfectly fine with a girl.
Anyway, I am rambling so I shall stop.
The following perspective is written by Sandra:
Cautiously optimistic. That is how I would describe my current feelings.
I also was wanting to get some answers on whether or not they were able to show our profile and how it went. When Mike told me this morning that he had called the attorney's office and was waiting on a return call, I was relieved that he had made the call and tried to find out some answers.
About twenty minutes later as I was pulling in to a mall to meet my friend Julie for lunch, I got a text message. Shock best describes my state of mind a few minutes later. He texted and told me that she chose us and we need to get some paperwork in to the attorney's office with a deposit. I could feel myself tearing up a little that it seems we are actually taking a step forward in this adventure towards parenthood. Then I thought "did he really just TEXT MESSAGE this information to me"? Amazing. :)
I'm looking forward to meeting with the attorney to get some more information and see how this plays out. I'm trying not to be crazy excited, but instead just stick with the cautiously optimistic. I guess that is my way of trying to safeguard my heart a little in case it doesn't work out.
We appreciate your prayers and will definitely update you as we know more. Please don't stop praying for us. There are many months between now and January and lots of time for her to change her mind.
13 comments:
Congrats! I know how excited you must be..and although understandably cautious. I really hope the Lord sees fit to let you be parents at this time.
Congratulations on this step. I will keep you in mind as our new little one grows (due the end of December).
OK, I know I said it a bunch yesterday, but Mike is such a brat for texting you such big news. Haha. But I am so glad to hear he is so excited. We of course will continue to pray. God is good and I know His goodness will continue.
Great news! We'll keep praying.
Yay! I will continue praying for you guys!
We've already talked about this some, but we are delighted about your good news. Having been there, this is an exciting time, yet there are moments of uncertainty. Nothing is by chance and God is good all the time!
As you described your feelings I began to tear up, when suddenly I found myself chuckling at your text message comment! Too funny!
We'll continue to pray!
Great news! How exciting! Will keep praying for your family.
Ack!!! I am so excited for you!!! Still praying...
That is incredible news! I'm so happy for you! We will continue praying for you guys and look forward to seeing how God will work this all out. =)
Congratulations-- will you text us when the baby arrives???
Excited for you... will be praying!
Sandra,
I don't know if you remember me from Calvary days, but just wanted to offer you a word of encouragement on your adoption journey. My husband and I struggled with infertility for 10 years and after waiting 22 months, just adopted our little boy, Ethan, at the end of May. I know that the journey is long, and often times very discouraging (I can't tell you how many times I wanted to give up)but hang tough. The blessing that awaits you when that baby is placed in your arms far outweighs the journey to get there. So many times,I wondered where God was in the journey, but as I look back, the faithfulness of God is so evident to me, and now I can see how He had just this perfect baby in mind for us. Praying for you guys in this journey as well. Feel free to e-mail me, I'd love to "talk" to you. (tonyandjulie@att.net)
As I was pulling weeds out in my yard, the Holy Spirit brought y'all to mind and I prayed for God to give you a baby- in His time.
It looks like it's time.
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